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Cyber Begging-Ask Money for anything and everything

Giving below an article I wrote during my engineering days, published in Silicon Times, a Bangalore based low profile computer and technology monthly, of which I was a member of editorial board. (This magazine is out of publication now) This is a 4 page long article and might take some time to read. Some of the sites I have mentioned in the article are non existent now, have added quick updates wherever possible. If you wish to make a copy or take a printout to read it later, .pdf version of the article is available here. 

Cyber Begging Ask money for anything and everything It’s a common practice worldwide to ask for financial assistance for various purposes by different means ranging from street side begging to appealing in media like newspapers. With the advance in technology, we have a new dimension of hitherto known forms of asking for alms-Cyber begging. The causes may be different, but the objective is the same-Money. The tales of woe vary. But the request is the same: They want people to send money via home pages that are becoming a cottage industry on the Web. Skeptical Internet experts have even coined a term for the trend; they call it "cyber begging." As the word implies, Cyber begging is an online phenomenon where one asks for alms from people browsing internet. The necessity to beg may not be as primitive as shortage of food, cloth or shelter as in the case of conventional begging. The objectives of online begging may vary from not being able to clear certain debts to fund shortage for one’s proposed world tour! Cyber-begging, as defined by the Web site, is a mode of fund raising that is carried out through donations over the Internet. The cyber-beggar creates a Web site (or joins a website meant for such a purpose) detailing his or her financial plight in the hopes of attracting donations for his or her cause. Yahoo! started calling such a process e panhandling and is all set to launch a category on the same in its portal The frustrating situation of being in debt can be caused by credit cards, car payments or college loans. Trying to pay off that debt can be even worse. Cyber- begging has proven to be easy and convenient form of raising money to overcome such financial crisis. One will never feel he or she will be at the mercy of people giving donations. Anonymity can be very well maintained on the net and probability of donors’ counter verification of the cause is minimal. It doesn’t matter you like taking money from people or not, as you’ve nothing to loose and everything to gain. Cyber-beggars do not ask money to buy a piece of bread; they need money for goods and services. A lot of them need to pay their debts. They beg to clear a credit card debt, to make a breast enlargement operation, to pay for medical care or education, to help a woman to divorce her husband, to make a movie or an album, or to buy a hummer jeep. Beggars ask for various sums of money: from several cents to a million dollars Wired magazine wrote that the first person to launch a cyber-begging site was a woman named Karyn Bosnak. Her website was called Save Karyn. It is possible to cast doubts on her championship, although her success was obvious. She had a credit card debt of over 20 thousand on June 23, 2002. Karyn Bosnak decided the following for herself: all I need is to get one dollar from 20 thousand people, or two dollars from ten thousand people, or five dollars from four thousand people. As a result, people transferred thirteen thousand dollars to the woman; she added some of her money and paid her debt on November 10th, 2002. As you can see, it took her less than six months to do away with her problem. Karyn has been saved. Now she patronizes other beggars, claiming copyright for her idea. New York Times confirms that the e-panhandling epidemic was launched together with Save Karyn website. Therefore, the date of June 23, 2002 can be considered the cyberbegging birthday. To begin with: It’s obvious that creating your own site for begging will have extra advantage, but all beggars may not be privileged enough to own one, since maintaining a site requires considerable technical skills and of course money. Many sites exist on net such as, or etc with the exclusive objective of begging or assisting online beggers. A prospective beggar registers himself here; he’ll be allocated a sub domain where he describes his crisis in most appealing manner. The host site provides all assistance to optimize returns- such as tips to draft a more appealing request, submission to search engines etc. Host sites do charge a nominal amount for their service and/or earn money by advertising. The prospective donors browsing through the net who visit such pages and feel like giving away few dollars may make their contribution either by conventional snail mail in form of cash or cheque or draft, or by electronic fund transfer facilitated by online payment processors line Paypal (owned by The subtitle of is quite impressive! “It's absolutely legal, ethical, honorable and popular!” it says. This is a "accumulate money slowly and surely" program, not a "get rich quick" program. A quick glance through FAQs of such sites is very much likely to influence most people to attempt making few bucks by signing up. If a webmaster of a begging site provides his or her full name, as well as the detailed description of a trouble, this site will enjoy great popularity amid benefactors. It goes without saying that if a benefactor-s problem has something in common with the one of a cyber-beggar; a webpage will be even more popular. Most of the cyber-begging websites are of the "give me a few bucks to help me pay off my credit card" ilk, but there are a few that are more creative, bizarre and sometimes even worthy. More impressive your site is, more will be the amount pouring in. 

  Some Live examples of the way they beg: Ed Mayhall, a 29-year-old web developer in Dallas, Texas, needs a Hummer. A Hummer - or Humvee, to use its proper name - is a pig-ugly, off-road vehicle developed for the US army. They cost about $120,000. If you're feeling frivolous, you can give Mayhall a couple of bucks at Interested few may visit A musical artist known as Shela, who lives in Toronto is the owner of this site. She is currently asking for donations on her Web site to help pay off debt incurred from writing and recording her music. The Web site also offers an outlet where people can promote their music. She says it was a mixture of frustration and her experience working with the Internet that led her to the idea of starting her personal fundraising site. As a computer hardware instructor she was "aware of how powerful a tool the Web could be." A tool she hopes will help her music career off the ground. “I have not listed myself as a charity," she says, “an action that would require certain registration and guidelines.” It is a simple gift. Anyone can give a stranger a gift right?" Her instructions are clear-“if you’re sending cash wrap it to ensure that it’s not see through” and “Do not write Save Shela on envelop as post office would think I’m running business”. years old Kent is looking for $9,858 for a hair transplant, and he gives 10 "good" reasons why you should give him money, one of them being because "I'm a really nice guy". Penny wants you to help her leave her husband ( She needs $12,000 to train as a nurse. This will give her the financial independence to help her start on her own. Jennifer Glasser from Canada has Lyme disease and wants you to help her pay her medical bills. Glasser has made more than $8,000 (Canadian) since she created her website Most of the money has come from a friend of a friend whom she's never met. If you're an opera buff, you may take pity on Elaine. She racked up $40,000 in student debt and she wants you to help her pay it off and fund her opera-singing lessons - a snip at $50 per hour (see "Princess" Natalie's spoof cyber-begging website is also good for a laugh ( ). "When I am purchasing overpriced lingerie or firearms I might think of you," she says. That's more than enough inducement for most would-be benefactors. Ramon Stoppelenburg, a journalism student at the Windesheim University in Zwolle, Netherlands, decided to finance his trip by setting up a Web site asking people around the globe to put him up for a day. He launched , offering to write about people's hospitality in exchange for bed and board. The response has been spectacular. In 12 days, over 11,000 invitations came in from around the world, more than 600 of which have been accepted, and still, the offers come pouring in. Some of them like a response from India offering him a roof for as long as he likes as well as an offer to show him around the entire subcontinent, have overwhelmed him. "What hospitality," he wondered aloud, "what hospitality." For his part, Stoppelenburg has offered all his hosts a roof should they visit the Netherlands. For all its apparent ridiculousness, cyber-begging is becoming a well-entrenched industry. There is a website,, (created by Steve Donohue) which offers e-panhandlers tips for selling banner advertisements and getting listed on search engines. And cyber-begging has now become so common there's even a directory to help you navigate them. Some are even tax deductible like and . Last but not least, we’ve got a successful Indian example too. Check out , the website of Rajat Kapoor, the director-actor who made his presence felt in films like Dil Chahta Hai and Monsoon Wedding, who is canning his new film titled Raghu. The big news about this small film is that Kapoor has managed to get it rolling as per schedule, with a considerable amount of finance for the movie coming in from friends and strangers, thanks to the power of the internet. His site read. “I am starting my new film Raghu… I have been trying to raise money for this film for the last two years…I invite you to be a part-producer in the film…You can contribute anything over Rs 10,000 and you will have a pro-rata share in the profit of the film…I need 120 such partners who would buy a minimum of one share.” The idea clicked and amount to the tune of few lakhs were collected, registering first ever successful cyber begging case in India. (Update: 

Currently above site is serving as his official site and blog showcasing details about his latest movies etc. Mixed Doubles is his latest movie.) All these sites claim to be true and serious. By the way, cyber-beggars donate money to each other sometimes. This is something like a mutually beneficial promotion. Of course, there are people, who wish to promote and advertise e-panhandling sites. And there’s lot of fun in it too- you may find a man, who asks people to make him richer than Bill Gates. Hitherto people used to donate their funds to orphanages, schools, salvation camps and other charitable organizations. Now those people are ready to give away their money to someone that they have never seen before. Experts believe that cyber-beggars get more and more talented every day, making their websites more technical, making their stories touchier. On the whole, the e-panhandling business prospers and flourishes before your very eyes. Cyber-beggars evoke compassion and sympathy with professional sincerity, so to speak. The event of cyber begging appears to be left unnoticed by the makers of IT laws, as there’s no reference to such a practice in Cyber Laws. Thus the practice may be treated legal as long as no fraud is involved. If payment is made in physical mode it may be easy to trace it. But it’s difficult to check how genuine the cause is and in what way funds were utilized, when transactions are done electronically. As long as there’ll be generous people who are willing to give away few dollars, there’ll be takers. As for the beggar, as idiom has it, tiny drops make mighty ocean. If a person is facing serious trouble, that can’t be sorted out by conventional practices, asking for assistance online may be justified. But with every tom dick and harry going online with his own grievances and pleading aggressively with an intention of making few quick bucks, we’re heading towards a situation where a donor would loose faith in the system and a genuine beggar will be deprived of his chances of overcoming his woes. Such a situation can (and should) be avoided if we use the internet resource sensibly and ethically. 

  Published in Silicon Times, November 2004 Related: SNOOPING


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    Thank you.

  2. Thanks for bringing that to my notice. I've fixed it. (http:// was missing)

    You have so many blogs...
    I saw some adult video clips in your side panel, hence sorry, cant link you. Most of your blogs have very less content hence not sure what value they will add to my readers. Once you have enough useful contents in any of your blogs let me know. I will reconsider.

  3. I love the internet begging sites, the biggest problem I see is the lack of updates. However sites like show many stories and show the donations making it even more interesting than the single pages.

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  5. a site like are becoming the rage of the internet.

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  9. Well I'm new to cyberbegging. There are so many sites online to register too. But I found one that's fairly new it was created by a woman and it has two chat rooms where members and visitors can meet an greet. I joined and just having someone to talk to or can relate to your situation is more important and it does helps me emotionally. On this website your treated like a person and not just a story on a long list. And I'm grateful to have found it.

  10. hi Shrinidhi Hande,
    thanks for the reply.
    firstly my main blog is
    Second, i assure you that none of my authored webpage consists any adult material.

    apart from that to make it easier to reconsider, my blog/site has more than 1000 pages with minimum of 400 characters.

    so what do u say.

  11. Hello... I know that begging for money is one way of getting financial support in some cases. I want to try it, too so here is my website

    Thanks from Peru.

  12. Another benefit cyber beggars have is the emotional support they offer to each other. It helps a great deal to know you're not alone during hard times.

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  14. Shronidhi your last comment was rude, or atleast it appears so to me.
    didn't expected it from you.


  15. Ok, with due respect, have taken it down.. Didn't intend to be rude, wrote it because I noticed many comments asking for money

  16. This is not my comment this my life and death problem, I done my daughter marriage last year that time I picked credits every month I paid 25 thousands as intrest .so kindly give me help for my credit problems every month I pay back to your amount said EMI so kindly help me save me and my family
    Thanking you sir.
    Gangadhar rao KS

  17. Can anyone help me here ... I am in financial crisis..I'm 25 and I got my self in 1.5 lakh rupees debt

    1. You'll probably need a more convincing story if you are expecting people to do charity. 1.5 lakh you can possibly repay easily if you can get a job

  18. Hello.
    It all started in November 2019. I started betting online.
    In my first month itself, I made a profit of around 2 lakhs with an investment of Rs.25000/-. Then next month again 3 lakhs I made. I was very happy and became over-confident.

    I was betting and winning consistently. But in December last week I lost my full amount of 8lakhs.

    I became nervous. But then I thought to myself that I made 8 lakhs in just 2 months. I will make more money this time and cover-up my lost money.

    Then on a regular basis I would bet. This time I was winning and loosing both.

    A time came where my losses became more than my winnings.
    Slowly, my personal savings of 4 lakhs were lost in the process.

    Then I started asking money from my friends/colleagues.
    This time my only intention was to recover my 4 lakhs.

    But now the situation is such that, I have a debt of 15 lakhs on me.
    I am in a desperate need of money.
    I pray and just want to clear the debt.

    If anyone can help me out of this misery, I would be very very very thankful and grateful.

    Once if I pay-off this debt, I will never-ever bet in my life and have a peaceful life.

    Me and My story is 100% true. Will share proof if anyone is interested in lending a helping hand to me.


  19. If anyone reading the above post and is capable of donating, PLEASE HELP by DONATING.

  20. Hello Everyone....I am 18 years old....
    I indulged in trading and got into debt. of 5000 Rs. Please anyone can lend me helping hand to get out of thus situation....Please...πŸ™πŸΌ

  21. Our family financially impacted badly with this lockdown period. My husband closed his hotel business with 60 lacks of loss. Currently we are struggling like anything.
    So I am seeking ( literally begging ) some help from you . Not having any other options.
    I am not forcing you just seeking some help. If you do this favor for me you will be my life Savior .

  22. Hi this is Mohammed farha ...
    I need urgently 15000 rupees .. my husband have no job ...i have 2 little kids ..medical payment pending please can anyone help me ...

  23. I am 36years old lady living with my 70yrs old mother.i lost my job in this pandamic....i need 60000 rs to pay rent..medicines nd food ....can anyone please help. Please contact mcontacte asap

  24. Hello I am 19years old kid ,but I work in different companies but due to covid-19 in my country , I have losses my job & I am not able to feed or study more . So please give me only 500$ , I return you if I live my life .thanks

  25. please help me due to lack of money problem

  26. Hello sir my name is m Varaprasad iam 21 years old I need 80000urgently because I lost my money sir.. Please help I will give after 3 months sir I need urgently today I want money please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help me please help meπŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ please help me please help me please help me please help me pleaseπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

  27. Hi .. i am princy .. i am 22 yrs old my family very poor situation 6 laks debt .very critical situation,me and my family savings currently 0.00 no money 😒 please any one help with our family


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